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11:11 Tuesdays by Vaishali Wagle

October 6, 2026


Happy 11:11 Tuesdays Reader,

Here are 1 Thought, 1 Quote, 1 Word and 1 Humour for you to reflect upon this week.


1.

Thought

Everyone agreed. Nobody aligned.

That is the essence of the Abilene Paradox.

It happens in leadership teams more often than we like to admit. Someone proposes a direction. Everyone nods. Nobody raises a concern. The meeting ends with “agreement.” And then, people leave the room with different reservations, interpretations, or no real commitment at all.

Consensus asks: “Can we all agree?”

Alignment asks: “Can we all commit?”

They are not the same.

Sometimes the most valuable contribution a leader can make to a meeting is not another opinion, but the permission to express the thought that hasn’t been spoken.

Where in your leadership team might agreement be hiding a conversation that still needs to happen?

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1.

Quote

“The opposite of courage is not cowardice. It is conformity.”

— Rollo May


1.

Word

Candour

(n.) The quality of being honesty and saying what is genuinely thought even when it may complicate the conversation.

[#WordChallenge: Use this word in your Executive vocabulary this week]


1.

Humour

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Vaishali Wagle

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